top of page
Search
  • Writer's pictureGladys Agwai

How to be happy even when life is hard!



Many individuals face difficulty maintaining a sense of happiness when confronted with life's challenges. Life is inherently unpredictable, and people often find themselves in situations that are demanding, stressful, or even painful. During these challenging times, the pursuit of happiness may seem elusive, leading to emotional distress, anxiety, and a diminished quality of life. However, the essence of true happiness lies not in the absence of difficulties but in your ability to navigate and find joy despite them.


What are the challenges when it comes to cultivating happiness even when life gets hard?

• Acceptance - Rather than resisting or denying challenges, come to terms with them.

• Resilience - Building resilience is challenging because you must develop a mindset that views setbacks as opportunities for personal growth.

• Gratitude - It is hard to focus on the positive when surrounded by difficulty.

• Human Connection - You withdraw during tough times.

• Self-care - You neglect your physical and mental well-being amid stress and turmoil. Issues seem insurmountable inhibiting your ability to set realistic goals.

• Growth Mindset - Requires a shift in perspective from viewing challenges as obstacles to seeing them as opportunities for learning and improvement.

• Meaning and Purpose - You grapple with existential questions and staying present getting overwhelmed by worries or regrets.

• Professional Support - There exists a stigma or hesitancy when seeking professional help.


Your goal is to inspire a shift in your mindset and behavior, fostering a sense of happiness and well-being even through your toughest moments. However, when the problem of maintaining happiness remains unresolved, you will experience a range of negative consequences across various aspects of your life. For example:


• Mental Health Decline - Persistent negative emotions contribute to a cycle of despair and anxiety affecting your overall well-being.

• Strained Relationships - Withdrawal, emotional distress, or a lack of effective communication can create distance and strain social connections. • Productivity and Motivation - Unresolved challenges hampers your ability to stay motivated and productive leading to decreased focus, energy, and enthusiasm for daily tasks and long term goals.

• Physical Health - Prolonged stress and unhappiness create issues such as insomnia, fatigue, and a weakened immune system, making you more susceptible to illnesses.

• Decision-Making - Emotional distress clouds judgment creating a struggle to make sound choices that lead to a cycle of unfavorable outcomes reinforcing feelings of helplessness.

• Hope and Resilience - The belief in your ability to overcome challenges and bounce back from setbacks diminish, perpetuating a sense of powerlessness.

• Isolation and Withdrawal - You isolate yourself further withdrawing from social interactions and activities you once enjoyed exacerbated feelings of loneliness and despair.

• Physical Well-Being - Unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as overeating or substance abuse have a detrimental impact on your physical health and exacerbate existing challenges.

• Growth - You miss out on valuable chances to learn, adapt, and become more resilient.

• Quality of Life - Creates a pervasive negative impact on various life domains hindering personal and professional fulfillment.


Angela found herself juggling multiple jobs to provide for her children. Amid financial constraints, she discovered the joy of simple pleasures. She taught her children that happiness could be found in the simplicity of shared laughter, homemade dinners, and the warmth of togetherness. Tragedy struck when she faced a serious health issue. Maintaining her sense of humor, finding joy in small victories, and cherishing every moment with her loved ones, she became a beacon of hope in the hospital ward. She befriended fellow patients, shared stories of overcoming adversity, and turned the hospital ward into a community of support.


Life’s challenges are inevitable, but your response to them is within your control. Addressing the challenge of finding happiness during life's difficulties and successfully navigating and solving this problem leads to a range of positive benefits and transformative experiences for an overall better life. Happiness is not a constant state but a journey influenced by how you navigate life's challenges. By embracing acceptance, cultivating resilience, practicing gratitude, and fostering meaningful connections, you can find joy even in the hardest of times. Remember, happiness is a skill that can be developed and refined, and it often flourishes most brightly in the face of adversity.


“In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there is something stronger – something better, pushing right back.”-Albert Camus


Article Written By:


As featured in:



8 views0 comments
bottom of page